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Writer's pictureNir Feldman

All the things israelis don't like to do

raelis, like people from any culture, have unique preferences, values, and habits shaped by their history, environment, and societal norms. While generalizations don't apply to everyone, here’s a lighthearted and culturally informed list of things that many Israelis tend to avoid or dislike doing:

1. Waiting in Line (תור - Tor)

  • Why? Israelis are often known for their impatience and directness, and waiting quietly in line isn’t their favorite activity. Expect some creative attempts at "cutting" or justifying their place at the front.

2. Overly Formal Behavior

  • Why? Israelis value informality and egalitarianism. They often avoid overly formal greetings or rigid protocols and prefer casual, straightforward interactions.

3. Saying “Yes” Without Questioning

  • Why? Israelis are naturally inquisitive and skeptical. They don’t like to accept things at face value and will often question authority, plans, or even casual suggestions.

4. Being Punctual (in Non-Business Settings)

  • Why? “Israeli time” is often a bit flexible, especially for social gatherings. Being 10-15 minutes late is common and not seen as rude.

5. Overpaying

  • Why? Israelis love bargaining and finding the best deal. Paying full price without negotiating (in markets or certain situations) feels like a missed opportunity.

6. Sugarcoating the Truth

  • Why? Directness is a cultural trait. Israelis prefer to say what they think, even if it might seem blunt, rather than softening their words unnecessarily.

7. Over-Adhering to Rules

  • Why? Israelis have a reputation for finding creative ways around rules they see as unnecessary or overly strict. This mindset is often referred to as "Israeli chutzpah."

8. Being Politically Correct

  • Why? In casual conversations, Israelis are less concerned about being overly politically correct and prefer speaking their minds, often with humor or irony.

9. Long, Slow Meals (on Non-Holiday Days)

  • Why? While they enjoy a leisurely meal on Shabbat or holidays, during the workweek, Israelis prefer quick and efficient dining—like grabbing falafel or hummus on the go.

10. Quietly Accepting Bad Service

  • Why? If an Israeli feels something isn’t right, they’ll likely speak up immediately, whether it's about poor service, a mistake, or anything unfair.

11. Standing on the Right of Escalators

  • Why? Unlike in some cultures where standing on one side of the escalator is customary, Israelis often use the entire width, much to the frustration of tourists!

12. Staying Inside All Day

  • Why? Israelis love outdoor activities, whether it’s hiking, beach days, or dining al fresco. Staying cooped up isn’t their style unless absolutely necessary.

13. Overly Subtle Humor

  • Why? Israelis tend to appreciate direct, sarcastic, or playful humor rather than subtle or understated jokes, which may come across as confusing.

14. Rigidly Planning Everything

  • Why? Israelis are spontaneous and adaptable. Overly detailed or rigid schedules are often met with resistance, as they prefer flexibility.

15. Long, Polite Negotiations

  • Why? In Israel, negotiations are usually fast and to the point. Overly drawn-out discussions are seen as inefficient.

16. Talking Quietly

  • Why? Israelis are passionate and expressive, and their conversations tend to be animated and loud, especially in group settings.

17. Overdressing

  • Why? Israelis favor a casual dress code, even in professional settings. Suits and ties are often reserved for very formal occasions.

18. Avoiding Conflict

  • Why? Israelis are not afraid to express disagreement or engage in debate. Avoiding conflict is often seen as unnecessary when you can just "talk it out."

19. Obsessing Over Personal Space

  • Why? Personal space is smaller in Israeli culture, and people are accustomed to closer physical proximity, whether in conversation or on public transportation.

20. Wasting Food

  • Why? With strong cultural ties to agriculture and a history of resourcefulness, Israelis dislike wasting food and often ensure leftovers are eaten or repurposed.

21. Staying Silent During Injustice

  • Why? Advocacy and speaking up for what they believe in is deeply ingrained in Israeli culture, both politically and socially.

22. Ignoring Family

  • Why? Family is central to Israeli life. Ignoring family responsibilities or avoiding family gatherings is rare and frowned upon.

23. Complaining About the Weather

  • Why? Israelis are used to hot summers and mild winters. Complaining about the heat is often met with a shrug or “Welcome to Israel!”

24. Overly Polished Social Media

  • Why? Israelis tend to be real and less curated online, often sharing candid moments rather than perfectly edited content.

25. Avoiding Spontaneity

  • Why? Israelis love last-minute plans, whether it’s meeting for coffee, going to the beach, or taking a quick trip.

Conclusion

Israeli culture is dynamic, direct, and full of zest for life. While there are things Israelis tend to dislike, these preferences are often tied to their love of efficiency, connection, and honesty. Understanding these traits can help you navigate Israeli society more comfortably—and even enjoy a little "chutzpah" yourself! 😊

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